is important to distinguish Mystery Secret (unspoken truth in theory to protect someone or many ) ... As pointed out Sinay on "Living without ghosts" mysteries unexplained like beauty, JL Borges ... In the mystery that no one stopped or withheld for an explanation, the explanation does not exist! Since The mystery is part of the soul of that being .... Sinay says: With the mysteries lives while known to exist. They make us humble and remind us that there is inevitably a clarification possible for every fact, every attitude, every manifestation. "I am satisfied with the mystery of the eternity of life and knowledge, meaning, of the marvelous structure of existence. With a humble attempt to understand if only a tiny portion of the Reason that manifests itself in Nature "Albert Einstein said .
When we are bound to someone at work, at the club, with customers in the couple, family, friendship, any link of proximity and continuity, also coexist with its mysteries (and the other lives with ours). Nothing in this manipulation, calculation or bad faith. Learning to live with the mysteries of someone is to learn to accept it.
... else are secrets. In a game of cards, the reason why we play certain letters appear or disappear is mysterious as the game is clean. But if a player holds one card and only he knows, there's no mystery, there is a secret. The secret is that which is hidden knowingly and with purpose. Organizations, states, cities, couples and families often have more secrets that allowed. Some of these try to preserve the image ... their self mism @ s or claim to have of ell @ s .
secrets would be the purpose of reputation: do not pollute the environment .... Others seek to save future generations some pain or embarrassment suffered by the above.
... the blame-lies "of those who came before us do not make us guilty, and knowing them gives us the possibility to choose a own way. There are secrets that allow certain individuals and certain organizations, to exert power over others. ... there are secrets in the assessment of proponents, are intended as saving acts, necessary love, care, protection for those who are deprived of certain information.
The truth is that in all cases, if something is kept secret is because it is considered serious . Can occur, however, that a couple of generations later it no longer has that seriously. Times change and with them also the outlook. But not always the problem is the content of the secret, but the very existence of the unseen, whether for any reason . In My ancestors hurt me, an extraordinary series of interviews by Patrice van Eersel and Catherine Maillard prominent specialists in psychogenealogy ... Serge Tisseron psychotherapist points to how the secrets destroy trust. Didier Dumas, another of the interviewees, the secret install a ghost in the family saga (or partner) Or any organization that preserves and sicken those who follow in time ... This ghost haunts, even if not name, and he who does not say the things he ends up intuit anyway that is missing and it is vital for its own identity, because we can be ourselves (that ambition so widespread) when we have all our truth, including our true history and roots . So we can choose what to do with it, what parts of it go and what to build and leave our own path.
Tisseron himself said that he decided to break the law of silence begins a healing process, staff and the link.
are not necessarily the facts of life that sick, but what q ue is done with them. Http://www.lanacion.com.ar/nota.asp?nota_id=1290139&origen=NLRevis
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